Saying no to the boss is not a bad look

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Can you say no to your boss without damaging your reputation as a hard-working, committed employee? Career strategist and author Karen Adamedes believes so.

If you find it hard to say "no" and find yourself taking on a huge amount of work, like overseeing umpteen projects, as well as the office intern, and writing the annual report, then this advice is for you. Read Adamedes’ top tips for refusing your boss without using the dreaded "n" word.

“Most often when people ask you to do something it is because they want the task, done not necessarily because they need you specifically to do it,” Adamedes says.

“Be polite, respectful, as helpful as you can be and clear that you are saying no.”

She proposes some good solutions, such as finding alternatives or presenting a different way to get the task done that doesn’t involve you doing it.

“You don’t even have to say no. For instance, try saying ‘I am working on XYZ at the moment, however, Anne [an alternative person] has experience to help you out.’

“Or ask, ‘Have you considered getting this done by the marketing team? I know they have access to some great graphic tools that would make this so much better?’ That’s suggesting an alternative way of doing something.”

Another alternative to saying "no" is to negotiate the time frame so that the answer is not no, but "not right now."

“Be polite, respectful, as helpful as you can be and clear that you are saying no.”

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